If your gender was switched?

[Ocean_Soul]

I don't post here often but I have a question for you all.

If you were the opposite sex, would you be the same in terms of D/s or would you want to be in a different role?

I'm just wondering whether this happens a lot or not. I'm a male dom, but I think if I were female, I would want to be a sub. I don't know why this is, I just found it kind of funny that I think this way.

[Ruby]

Good question.

If my gender were switched, I'd probably want a hot domina to have as a wife and I'd get to be her loving pet (subbie but not full time d/s) just like I am now to my T.
So, same role, different body.

And for the switch side of me, I would hope she would let me take charge every now and then.

[le forgeron]

It probably wont' change... but I like both side anyway (not at the same time).
My switch orientation is usually based on mood, so that's unlikely to change any way.
At least the makeup if any would be less caricatural and could be more provocative.

[Sweetsboi]

I am new here so I hope no one minds me responding to this.
I have switched genders (for the most part) inbow: and to be honest I have Topped and bottomed as both a Man and as a Woman. I much preferred to Top as a Woman because I wasn't happy with who * I Was* and in so being I couldn't let go of total control, but now that I am more secure in who I am and what I like, I am very happy being my Mistress's boi.

With regards,
Sweetsboi

[bearbeast]

thank you for your qestion,"Ocean-soul" for your thoughtful qestion and now I'm going to spill the bean's so please don't bite me cause I like it

And wecome to the forum Sweetsboi, hope that you enjoy your stay with us.

now as for spilling the beans, I also have changed gender from female to male, and from my point of view, I grew up submissive. With a very "quick handed" mother, who used belt's wooded spoon's, canes to dish out punishment. In my earlier sexual life as a young adult, violent/cruel parterns became my scene, looking back in hinded sight, this was partly due to the tormented feelings that I had about myself, I didn't know at the time that there was help.

ten years ago, I evenutually got the help I needed and my life has change for the better, I'm still a sub, with a happy contented heart, and now I enjoy every bit of life with my lovely Mistress Rhiannon who is also my Wife. one day she'll get round to putting in a post, she's such a busy person she sya's hiya to you all .

well I must go now "pet cemertry" is on, meeting my mates (sily joke - I know!)

have a good day/night to you all
bye bye for now.

[Mobius]

If my Gender were switched I would probly be a lipstick lesbian. 4in heals and red muff diving lips

Moby

[subcami]

I don't post here often but I have a question for you all.

If you were the opposite sex, would you be the same in terms of D/s or would you want to be in a different role?

I'm just wondering whether this happens a lot or not. I'm a male dom, but I think if I were female, I would want to be a sub. I don't know why this is, I just found it kind of funny that I think this way.

I might be overanalyzing this question but it would probably depend if i still had same background and raising and basically same kind of personality only a man. if those were pretty much the same i would probably still be a cute little subbie.
cami

[Lavender]

all i know is that if i was to become male all id do all day is masturbate

[gloombunny]

I'm, what, the fourth TG to post in this thread? I'm not even sure what having my gender be switched would mean, exactly - would I end up as an FtM, or would only my body be switched, or only my mind... aaaaah, too confusing.

I don't think it would affect my subness any, though.

[Ozme52]

Yeah... in truth, it's hard to contemplate what mental changes would go with a gender switch... I have no reference points. If it were strictly physical...

I'd be a lesbian. LOL

[hellbentforleatherr]

Several have said that if their gender were switched, they would probably go bi. This is a natural thing to say. You may have changed appearance, but not preferance!

I like to be a bottom, but I have a very dominant streak. I don't like images of men hurting women, so I guess my F/m ideas are really my own sado ideas finding an acceptable outlet. (in my fantacy mind, it's OK for women to hurt men).

I guess if I found myself suddenly wearing a female body, somebody would be in a lot of trouble. Probably a male. Things non-concentual come to mind.

But I would also have to do some scientific research with my new E-zones. I wonder what they're like. I'd do experiements with stair rails, bicycles, and horses and saddles, and short skirts on leather auto seats, all that stuff. I hear "no, it can't" mostly, but "yes, it an" sometimes. I'd like to see for myself.

[mina]

Oh fun thread, I've actually thought about this before. If I was suddenly a male... I'd want to look like my Master lol. And since I'd still love men and pain, I'd probably be a homo and want to be a sub for a male Dom still, but... since I'd have a dick, I might want to TRY being a Dom to female subs. I think with that strong male body I'd probably feel more dominant too. But ultimately I'd still be strongly submissive.

[Timberwolf]

"all i know is that if i was to become male all id do all day is masturbate"

Funny if I became a female, I'd do the same thing. That multiple g-spot orgasm thing sounds like a f-ing riot. And anyone who's been to a sex toy shop can tell you girls get all the fun toys. Plus I'd be playing with my boobs all the time. lol

If I was a woman I would still be a switch. Yes, I've thought about it. Yes, I'd still like women more.

[frankee]

And anyone who's been to a sex toy shop can tell you girls get all the fun toys. Plus I'd be playing with my boobs all the time. lol

If I was a woman I would still be a switch. Yes, I've thought about it. Yes, I'd still like women more.

Yes, we do have the best toys

[Warbaby1943]

If gender were reversed I have often though I would have been a slut or at the very least an easy lay. However, thinking of the gender change in terms of BDSM activities as a female I would be a Domme by day and a sub in my home life relationship.

By day I could earn a great living by servicing the needs of submissive that could not obtain their desires else where and there seems to be a great market for this. If I were born with great looks I would probably have so much business I wouldn’t be able to handle it all as a professional. Size may not always count, and even though beauty is only skin deep, it does help in advertising your services. I wouldn’t want to pay the prices they charge and not have an attractive Mistress to look at.

As a female I would choose to be a submissive with my life partner knowing that I most likely would be capable of achieving multiple organisms in his/hers capable hands. For unlike males who can be milked and denied the pleasure of an actual orgasm, to me as a female, I wouldn’t think such was possible. Being submissive I could leave it up to my Dom as to how and what would be used on me to get me off rather than forcing or instructing a sub as to what to do. Although as a female Domme, in a real life situation, I can also see the advantages to that. Tough call but I still think I’d choose submissive. And I'd hope to have great tits because

[Tojo]

Well I've already got some nice breasts to play with whenever I want (depending on her mood of course....)

If I woke up & found myself in a female body, I'd be off for a sex change- I love being a guy!

As for only women being multi-orgasmic, well I've got news for you fetishdj...

If I was stuck with it, I'd be a Domme, of course- I'd still be me. Besides, what a way to live- a subby boy to clean & cook, days spent putting down men. Getting paid for it, instead of doing it for free (think about that)

I often joke with my dream girl that she should switch to a Domme- much more lucrative.


Tojo

[arwcuw]

As for only women being multi-orgasmic, well I've got news for you fetishdj...

I've got news for you too. After years of reliably bringing myself to orgasm almost every night, I've never had more than one climax per go. The multiple-orgasm experience is as much a mystery to me as it is to you.

As for the original question, I actually have an ongoing brain experiment in which I've created two characters, each based on traits that I'm afraid to cultivate in real life. One is female, and a Domme. The other is male, and a submissive. The fact is, my masculine side is much more submissive than my feminine side. So how did it come to be that I'm a female, and submissive?

So to answer the question, if I were changed to male, I'd still be sub.

[Tojo]

Hmm, sorry to hear that arwcuw- but look what you have to look forward to!

Perhaps when you find someone talented & knowledgable enough you'll be able to explore that side of eroticism. Meanwhile there's plenty of info out there - my hint if you're interested is denial....



Tojo

[Tojo]

double post....

[YourThrone]

Tough question!

If my gender was switched and I woke up as a female. On one hand I'd probably stay a submissive because it's in my nature yet, on the other hand. I'd like to see what goes through the Domina's mind.

Okay,Problem solved I'd become a switch