I don't know that anyone turns anything. It comes from knowing yourself very well and being comfortable in your own skin. At 37 I am by far the most self confident I have ever been and I have no problems attracting people. I would have said I was always very submissive but now that I am older I like to play the other side of the fence too.

I just think some people come to know themselves at different times and for some women it means when they are older they are more comfortable being in charge.