thanks jinn

hmm. ok. now i have a a few options.

http://www.xandria.com/shop/product....ntasy+Ticklers

http://www.xandria.com/shop/product....ip+Riding+Crop

http://www.xandria.com/shop/product....Short+Bat+Crop

http://www.stockroom.com/j294plus.htm

http://www.stockroom.com/a332.htm

http://www.stockroom.com/a408.htm

now i seriously need help! which one should i pick? i want something that hurts, but not overly much.