Healthy discussion is good, and there's plenty of it here. BDSM, Iraq etc. Lots of difference viewpoints coexist here.

However, sometimes there are posts that are only intended to disrupt and annoy others, while others are downright rude or bordering on insane. I'm happy to see them deleted ASAP, so that real adult (in all senses!) conversation can continue.

Welcome to the forum, Tree.