Good on you, Mr JerseyGuy, for staying in shape. Personally, I can't be bothered. Much like your beer bellied customers at the bar, I expect. There probably isn't the same incentive for men to stay in shape as there is for women. Looks are probably irrelevant to the kinds of things women value, like kindness, competence, being clean, not being a jerk, not being moody, being independent, not needing to be mothered/babysat.

In my experience of guys though, for all they make a big deal about how women look, they are just so easy to pick up and hook. When chemistry strikes a lot of guys seem to lose their sight. That's the irony of how this thread started, that manwhore was looking at online, and presumably getting aroused by, the very same (fat and ugly) women that he was deriding.