The other thing about women and men is that they probably get "fat and ugly", if indeed they go this way, over a long period of time. By that time, they are probably in a fairly good relationship and the history and bond,(not to mention the effort they have made to work on their sexual preferences together), far outweigh what either of them look like 10 or 20 years on.

Aaah, I see a great future for the fat and ugly, of either sex, as poster pin ups on the web.