Sorry, I probably should have posted a follow up a bit sooner, as I have had a couple inquiries and probes here and there.

As far as the issue goes between me and the person this was originally in question with, as far as I know right now we're just friends and holding with that. Of course she hasn't exactly been very vocal with me, since I started this. That's her choice I suppose.

However, life has a funny way of happening when one least expects it. I've encountered someone else who came along in the right place at the right time... someone perhaps much better suited to my own needs, both in D/s and other terms. Someone I've quickly established a very deep bond with that has... surprised me in more ways than I care to list publicly. And right now, as far as my switch-ness goes, I'm in a situation where both I and this person feel we're more than comfortable with it.

This is, in no way, meant to suggest the person originally in question isn't a fine person, or still someone I consider a friend. But the timing for us, as a couple isn't right. I hope she finds her happiness in D/s, in time. And if she still wants me as a friend, or wants my help, she knows it's there to be had.

Without going into further detail publicly, I hope that helps shed some light on it for those who have asked me about what exactly is going on with me these days. I am just thankful to be among a community with so many of you who clearly care about one another. We need more places like this one.