Well my theory is that you need someone to talk to- not necessarily a therapist or some sort of 'ist' just a willing ear to listen.

That's how I survive through difficult times in general, including in my D/s experience- I have some of the most fanbloodytastic friends who stick by me & listen to me.

I too pretty much lost interest in D/s after a few failed attempts. If not for my lovely lisa & then meeting Aussiegirl I'd probably be posting on a tech forum by now....

Finding the right one is so very important.


Tojo