Help pleasing my girl

[Jebus_kanesus]

God damn, I'm amazed by the respone! Thanks for all of your great answers!

Now, are you doing this Only for her? Think about this carefully and be honest with yourself, is this something you are truly interested in & enjoy or is it more for pleasing your girl and you get some satisfaction because you are trying to make her happy?

Oh noo, nono. It's more like an unexplored side of me (which i enjoy ), but would probably have stayed unexplored if it wasn't because of her, if you copy?

How do you want to dominate her? How much control does she want you to have? How much control /can/ she give you and how much /can/ you dominate her?

I'd love to have full control over her (the power to both supply & deny sorta), and that's pretty much what she want's to. I also love making her worship me, and applying pain to her is also a huge turn-on.

What aspects of bdsm is she more into over others? Does she like pain a bit more, is it the humiliation? Does she like bondage? How much bondage? Does she like power play, commands, slapping, behavior restriction? Is it only during sex or outside of bed as well?

Well, as i said, total control and humiliation is her biggest turn-ons. She likes being punished with a caring, yet perverted feeling. Like the way you would feel infor punish a slave whom you care for. She goes for almost everything, as long as it's right. She want's to be driven to the point where i can do whatever i want with her (in a mutual way).

If you get your own enjoyment, I can only suggest one thing- believe in yourself. She obviously loves & trusts you- you're in an enviable position.

Thank you for that piece of advice. It kinda went right into my heart .


And to the rest, THANK YOU for spending time on helping me, it's very valuable to me . LOVE!