Quote Originally Posted by Katmandu
...In my normal life, I am always the Boss, always in control, always the Director... Now, I want a man who can take that control from me, and be the Boss. Personally, I've experienced the gentle approach, and I truly crave someone who can get past my resistance, and TAKE the control from me. I want to be broken. Is that so wrong of me? I desire to have my Master take me not just to my limits, but beyound. I want to be made a quivering body of submissive slave-flesh.
So, everyone else's opinions?
I hear you loud and clear. And no, nothing wrong there. If anything, your desire to be taken, broken, pushed past your limits, whatever way you want to say it, speaks of a great deal of inner strenght.

It is exciting, and why not? If you realize why you are doing it and are sure that this is not just a way of punishing yourself for being successful, but rather a reward for knowing yourself so well and being true to your own desires, then go right ahead. Play safe, but experience all you want to feel.

If, as an added bonus, you have a partner who shares this point of view (luckily I do,) you will experience pain and pleasure in untold measure.

Good luck!