Rats, I type all this info, and then there is a 'Server error', and I have to start over!
First off, thank you Drake and Kitten for your 'safety' concerns. As it happens, my Master is also my Hubby of 7 years, and it wasn't until @ 4 months ago, that I approached him with my fantasies of being a Submissive. He agreed!! YAYYAYAYAY!!!!
Although he has "pushed me to my limit" once or twice, he , out of his love for me, has tried to "gentle" me , or "brainwash" me more than being demanding towards my complience.
Unfortunately, this does nothing for MY fantasies, as I have, quite literally, been the BOSS my entire life, and as much as I crave it, have a hard time surrendering to my deepest, submissive nature......
As such, then, I feel that if a man (specifically, MY man! ), can be MORE Dominant than I, I could truly let my inner slave free.....
My largest concern, is maybe I am too eager, and should learn 'patience', perhaps to let the easy approach take the time it needs to work, or let my fiery nature take control, by allowing, or asking, my Master to take the control!
SIGH
BTW, Kitten and Nikka, you sound as though you speak from experience?
And Tourguide, Sir, you kinda surprised me! I thought you would be against "going too far". Glad it's otherwise!