Quote Originally Posted by KatmanduI
So, do any of you other slaves out there cry? How do I reassure my Master that he can (should!!) go much further, despite my responses?? Or should I start a new thread for that question....Hmmmmmm?
If it hurts you cry - of course. How do you explain it? Just through the practice and trust and learning about each other. As much as you trust him not to damage you and you are taking it without calling safe word - he has to be comfortable with himself enough to know what will not permanently damage you and be able to trust you to call for time out if you need it.

No easy answers, no pre-packaged solutions - play and learn and take it easy. One thing though - that I personally learned - if your day was way to shitty and stressful or you are mush of emotions due to the ordinary life circumstances - much better scene is snuggling on the couch with hot cocoa than going through the flogging (than again, maybe it's just me)