Quote Originally Posted by willem167
once again to all of you.

Not interested in what i said?
Please explain why there are so much replies!
I love it that you are so furious, that you show your emotions.
Because that's what life is all about, emotions. So cry it out, let yourself go!

You are all used to play games. But remember this is not a game anymore!
This discussion is for real.
I don't have the intention to insult you, only to wake you up.
In your replies, you try to prove that you or your lifestyle mean something.
But of course for all people on this earth life is worth living, and we should respect all human beings around us.

so reply and show your true feelings!
No, willem, "This" is no game, any more than making love is a game to people who don't practice BDSM.

There is no fury in my responses, nor in the responses of many others. Those of us who have practiced BDSM for some time and who have engaged in on line communities for some time have seen people like you come and go with your judgements and your self importance. I mean no offense, but this sort of confrontation/discussion is very old news for me. Hence, I can't take it seriously.

If you truly want to discuss how we practice BDSM and how it is more than role playing and games, I would be happy to discuss it with you or anyone who sports an open mind to the topic. The tone of your posts does not indicate an open mind and so why should we bother trying to explain what is over and again discussed and explained on these forums.

With all due respect, I hope that your life is full and your translation of intimacy and BDSM meets your needs. I will not judge you for it. I also respectfully add that I hope you are permitted to continue on these forums. I am not one to create or support isolating any community. Many times, it is discussions such as these where people grow vis a vis the thought necessary to balance negativity in remarks and opinions against one's own lifestyle.

Further, my brand of BDSM is no better and no worse than yours or anyone else's. I would hope that everyone here would undertake a tone of tolerance for one another's practices, needs and desires.

Best wishes to you and everyone,

Mistress Val