Now I feel bad!

I wasn't trying to be judgemental. It's just my personal opinion. I just think you will have a lot more luck in your new relationship if you end the current one honestly.

I can sympathize and have posted on previous occassions that I don't think I could ever be satisfied in a vanilla relationship again. Once you get the bug to experiement, its hard to go back.

I wish you only the best, my dear. Keep us posted and best wishes to you.