sweetmissy, i'm glad to hear that you're going to work things out properly as you begin your new relationship. i think everyone is right when they say you will feel much better about it in the long run and there won't be any of those little resentments that can build up when one doesn't end/begin a relationship in the right order. i wish you the best of luck with your Amo hun and if he asks you to marry him again (even if it's just to score another extra piece of b-day cake from mom) you could always shock the heck out of him and say yes ~wicked grin~...i am such a brat lol.

oh and just a sidenote to MrJerseyGuy...you are too right about it being too late to go back once the bug bites. there are days i wish i could be happy in a vanilla realtionship because it would make life so much easier but it's just not possible, especially since i am the sort to push when i don't feel that control i need exerted over me. ~smirks~ more then one guy has ended up a doormat for not knowing how to push back and keep me in line.