Suggestions for punishments

[gburch]

i agree with Nikka, if you let us know what sort of stuff you've already come up with gburch, people could perhaps then take it from there.

handjob, blowjob, vaginal and anal sex, varying degrees of spanking, and bonuses for her if an outfit or roleplay is involved, or if she takes my come in her mouth.

I'm not entirely sure what you mean by this, could you rephrase it, or elaborate a bit more please?

The pervert I am might just suggest a system of price-reduction with time and usage.
It could be:
- unused line for more than xx time period get a 10% cumulative discount.
- each time a line is used, it get a 5% cumulative discount.

There are some good ideas there forgeron, thank you, and some that would be impractical for us. I don't think it would be a good idea for me to choose her wardrobe for the season, I have no sense of fashion!

[le forgeron]

I don't think it would be a good idea for me to choose her wardrobe for the season, I have no sense of fashion!

But that's also part of the possible long term humiliation/punishment!
Come on, just let your imagination in charge...

[Dslave]

I tend to agree that this doesn't sound like very "slave-like" behavior, though it might be an interesting game. Out of respect, I would not call the girl a prostitute but I would like to explain why I don't feel this is very slave-like or even sub-like behavior that she is displaying, because I fear that you are going to end up being taken advantage of by this little game.

Basicly, what you are allowing this girl to do (whatever you may wish to call her) is top from the bottom. By allowing her to do this she is getting what she wants and controlling the situation. And, I see you being not only broke but broken in the end. If it is a little game, that is fine, but I feel it is truly stripping you of control of the situation. Unless, that is, if she hates sex. Then, maybe, you could be gaining some power or leverage but if she is already an eager beaver (pardon the expression) then she is simply using you to get what she wants and that is very unbecoming behavior for a submissive or a slave.

[gburch]

That raises some interesting points which I hadn't considered. The list contains activities which she does like as well as ones that she doesn't. Although, her enjoyment of them is not really the important issue, it's whether I enjoy the activities or not. It is more of a game, I suppose, than what most people would consider 'serious BDSM', but that is what works for us.

The reason I started this thread was to add more items to the list that were a punishment to her, as she does enjoy most of the activities on the list.

Following the game idea further, I have been thinking some about some rules to add for various situations, such as imposing a credit limit, and having certain punishments set aside for exceeding it. I have also been considering the idea of adding interest each month to the amount that I am owed, as it were. Does anyone have any suggestions for other rules? Someone with a background in banking perhaps?

Also, I probably should mention that we are in a long distance relationship, and are usually spend the weekends together, and the weeks apart (unfortunate but unavoidable for now). Perhaps this might stimulate a few ideas specifically for this situation?

Thanks to all for their input, I appreciate it, and look forward to more.