Like wise Oz said it depends on the two people as I have had very successful o/l to r/l experences --but I have had some disasters too

O/L is a good way to meet people ---sort them out a little ---before you meet them ---but people are not always what they say ---and do not always feel like they said they felt---

But I still use O/L to sort thru the potential subs that I would like to meet and have a r/l relationship with