So long but not Goodbye

[Ocean_Soul]

i have thought of many things i might say in response to these posts...

the one thing i keep coming back to is... no matter WHAT i say or HOW i say it it will be seen as "taking sides" and i will lose friendships out of it...

And honestly... THAT is what pisses me off and makes me the saddest... a catch 22 situation, no matter what is said....

I know what I would do. Whoever I thought was wrong I’d tell them that they fucked up. And if the simple fact that I think they did something wrong and made a mistake makes them question our entire relationship than I’m probably better off. For a multitude of reasons.

But that’s just me, I can be cold like that sometimes.

[Psynymph]

just_annie- nobody is asking you to choose sides. and they aren't your friends if they don't choose to respect your desire to remain "neutral".
nobody should have to "pick sides" as it were. either you agree there is something wrong or you disagree. but anyone that chooses to remain neutral should do just that. i realize that the need to choose sides may be felt but ultimately it's your decision and no one else's and that includes choosing to remain neutral.

cariad- i agree with what you said wholeheartedly which is why again i apologized for posting this, though i don't regret my decision. i know this thread in particular is going to have to be carefully watched and monitored.

Wolfscout- go Wolf!

baby_girl- you little badass