just_annie- nobody is asking you to choose sides. and they aren't your friends if they don't choose to respect your desire to remain "neutral".
nobody should have to "pick sides" as it were. either you agree there is something wrong or you disagree. but anyone that chooses to remain neutral should do just that. i realize that the need to choose sides may be felt but ultimately it's your decision and no one else's and that includes choosing to remain neutral.

cariad- i agree with what you said wholeheartedly which is why again i apologized for posting this, though i don't regret my decision. i know this thread in particular is going to have to be carefully watched and monitored.

Wolfscout- go Wolf!

baby_girl- you little badass