This is exactly the kind of feedback I was looking for and thanks to redEva for the lengthy response. I have minimal "real" experience but have been fascinated with the concept and reading about it for years...waiting to find the right partner, I guess. I'm glad to see I was on the right track because I am already planning a long sensory experience...coming close to the pussy but never touching it and using the vibrator on her (she says she's never had that) while teasing her nipples with ice cubes and pinching. She also gets very excited by deep kissing...I can tell that the underside of her tongue makes her very hot.

We were together last night and although I want to save our first "session" until we have our whole weekend free (next week) I got even more forceful with the "face fucking" and was pleasantly surprised when she pulled me on top of her in the 69 position so I could go deeper and harder. It didn't seem to phase her at all...just turned her on more.

As for the second post (sorry I can't see the name right now as I'm typing this), I agree that she has some experience. I just think it's one of those things where she had a taste and wants more.

As I said, we were close friends for several years and she knows every aspect of my sexual history. She told me early on that she was intimidated about sleeping with me in the beginning because her experience is so limited. And I know for a fact that she has only ever had two lovers. I just think that she was comfortable approaching me about this because I told her a few weeks ago that I wanted to know what else I could do to please her and that there was no suggestion she could make that would surprise or offend me.

Hopefully after we get a little experience under our belts I can get her to join the forum. Last night she was even checking out the distance between the I-bolts that I have installed in the walls next to the bed to make sure they weren't too far apart. I guess I'm going to be going through the next week of work with a raging hardon. I just can't wait.

Please keep the feedback coming.