Thanks Curtis...I think the idea of having the "what do you expect" conversation during the first session is a great idea. After a few drinks in front of the TV (Sambuca makes her really horny) and once she is bound she will be turned on and more inclined to be honest about her expectations and desires.

We're still in that mode where...how do I put this...I know that she knows exactly what she wants. But I think she is still too shy to be totally open about it At least in the course of a normal living room conversation. Like BruceBoxer pointed out...it's obviously something she is really into or she wouldn't have brought up the whole discussion in the first place. The I-bolts were her suggestion which leads me to believe that she has more experience than she wants to let on. She is not exactly the "mechanically inclined" type and I wouldn't have even expected her to know what an "I-bolt" was.

I'm seeing her later this evening so maybe as things are heating up I'll point out the position she is going to be in this time next week and see where the conversation takes me.

Either way, you guys will get a full account after our first session...which will actually be several sessions over the course of the weekend. I'm already as excited as a kid in a candy store plotting out different positions I can restrain her in. It's not quite the kind of thing I can make small talk with friends about and this forum is a great release for me as I find you people to be articulate, intelligent and sensible.

I guess I'll learn as I go. Since I started this thread...everytime we make love I get a little bolder...gripping her hair to hold her in position, shoving my cock down her throat etc. And everytime I get a little bolder she surprises me by reacting even more enthusiastically than I expected. I don't know where this roller coaster is going but I can tell its going to be one helluva fun ride!!!

One last thing...I purchased a cock ring and I've heard certain things and explanations about what they do and how they heighten an erection and maintain it. Can anyone tell me from experience how they work? I'm also interested in getting my hands on some viagra. If anybody can help I'd love to hear from you. I do Ok on my own, but I'm still only human...the idea of maintaining a hardon for several hours raises some interesting possibilities in this situation. If you don't want to respond in the thread, My e-mail is MrJerseyGuy@hotmail.com

Thanks again for your suggestions