No it's not supposed to be like that. Not at all.

To be honest, if he changes you could knock me over with a feather.

You need to get out and get out now. Or kick him out. Rely on family and friends if you have to.

Remember, what your daughter sees now is what she learns from. Do you want this for her? Think deeply about this.

There is much more than some misguided notion of love at stake.