Hi Teni,

Ask the boyfriend anyway. If he wants it bare, he can help. Nothing BDSM about that.

Warning for Wax: If you do it right and it rips the hair out by the root, you can get little whiteheads in that area for a few days. The area is trying to heal. If you use some type of aftershave lotion or gel right way, you can minimize this affect. When you first start waxing it lasts about 2 weeks before you have to wax again, then later up to 4 weeks. BIG issue - if you want to grow the hair back in the future, think twice about waxing. It will thin the hair and for some, stop it from growing back completely.

About shaving: If you have a bath-tub. A nice hot back for about 15 minutes relaxes the hair. Take the razor and shave under water - the hair is standing up - and this leaves a smoother, longer lasting shave.

Good luck with getting time special assistance,

Ruby