Quote Originally Posted by alura
I am probably about to get into a bad place with you, TG, but that's okay. D/s is all about disagreement and finding your agreement.
To me, submitting and dominating are all shades of grey. And because of that, so are relationtionships, and the defintions thereof.
You're not getting anywhere with me. I don't have any expectations of you in any way.

Every person's relationship is different. Diversity is what makes things interesting. However, certain relationships are categorized by certain terms. A lesbian relationship is a relationship between two women. Would a lesbian relationship still be a lesbian relationship if one of the women wanted to date men? In the same vein, a DS relationship is between a dominant and a submissive. Would it still be a DS relationship if the submissive didn't want to submit?