Twilight,

You poor love. I can only guess at the inner termoil, doubt and personal upset you went through. What a tacky experience.

No body should pry personal information out of you that you yourself are not ready to share. Starting out with a Dom is like starting out on a relationship with any person, as the relationship strengthen, so too the trust. It's when we're comfortable with our partner that we want to share, but even then there may be past experiences that one can not talk about, and a good Dom would understand that.

Don't beat yourself up over this. You didn't do anything wrong. You just met up with a wolf in sheep clothing. He was obviously insensitive, and an overbearing self obsesed brute, and would not have made a good Dom. Dom or not. A dom does not own everything there is about us. Not in this essance.

I don't know how you go about sending out feelers for a Dom, but you can this is a lesson learned, and we can grow from it. If this mans harassment keeps up, contact the powers that be. I'm sure they would be interested in knowing.

And about the other Dom, if he doesn't come back, then its his bad luck.

Caitlin