An interesting topic, J's blu.

Virtual Slut Ruby in Lord Mobius's Dungeon has less hard limits, but I found it interesting that all of the dungeon folk agree to the same no no's in our writing: beastiality, scat, water sports, and under-age play are at the top of the list.

The kind sirs that run the dungeon even created a color coded collaring system so everyone could respect a basic set of limits for each other.

Ruby, the real life wimp, has got lots and lots of hard limits.

While for some, causing permanent harm/damage isn't a hard limit, it's a hard limit for T, Nat and me. For us, that limit includes things like piercing, tattooing, scarring, or branding.

In real life, I've got some hard limits that not everyone would guess.

For example, I'm allergic to sulfa, so drinking most any alcoholic beverage is a very hard limit for me. It's the same thing with Aspartame - the artificial sweetener - even drinking a diet cola could make me sick. Would I drink one for T? He wouldn't ask.

I'm sure other folks have allergies or phobias that they wouldn't want used against them.

As a caution, your partner must know these things if they are to protect you and we often forget to ask or tell.

Now about those subs/masters who have an allergy to "housework", that I find a tough sell.