Actually, my straight hard limits are being pushed continually. Not that I get punished for them (we don't ever play with punishments, ours is an "accept each other as we are" type relationship), but He keeps trying!

It is, that He wants me to wear skimpy clothes (ie. see-through shirts) and expose myself in public. My reaction? HELL NO! LOL, I'm too old and worn to be able to pull off dressing like I was 18 again!