I have said and often that emotionally there is little difference in online and b2b and I mean that. Real life though also means physical and that becomes a challenge to you both.

Can the Dom walk the talk, can the sub do what she has fantasized about. Online of thought is to make it happen at the very begining, be the hard ass demanding Dom to find out is she can take it.

I personally believe that any sub can be pushed to hard and too fast. Most subs need nurturing and rewards so she is hungry for more. Doms move at the pace you feel that you can control totally, remember hearing her beg for more is a great joy.

Long weekends sharing the life together in your roles will give you a feel for how you will be together.