Quote Originally Posted by Haelix View Post
Tom, I almost want that "If a woman doesn't want you.." quote on a poster or something. genius.
Haelix
Glad you like the quote. Use it anytime. At my standard professional rates, it works out at £1 per word, but I'll settle for a by-line.

I think it is true though. What appears on the surface is rarely what is.

That's why, although I really do think the roles of hunter and quarry are switched in what we do, as compared to conventional vanilla courting, one thought does occur to me. What is setting out baited traps if not just another form of hunting?

In other words, it seems to me that, vanilla or no, the reality is that we all pursue each other, regardless of gender or role. We just adopt different strategies is all. Whatever works best for us as individuals — whatever offers the best chance of hunter and prey colliding and merging into a relastionship.

I think it's called being human.

Or should that be "being horny"?