Hard limit questionaire for both Doms and subs to help them find long term partners

[michaela1 (Sa)]

Activity Experience Willingness Activity Experience Willingness
Abrasion y 1 Injections: N N
Age play Y 2 Intricate (Japanese) rope bondage: N 5
Anal sex: Y 5 Interrogations: N 1
Anal plugs (small) Y 4 Kidnapping: N 5
Anal plugs (large) N 1 Kneeling: Y 4
Anal plugs (under clothing in public) Y 2 Leather clothing: N 5
Animal roles Y 2 Restraints chains: Y 5
Arm & leg sleeves (arm binders): N 3 Restraints leather: Y 5
Asphyxiation: Y N Restraints rope: Y 5
Auctioned for charity: N 1 Lectures for misbehavior: Y 4
Bathroom use control: Y 2 Licking (non-sexual): y 3
Bestiality: N N Manacles & Irons: Y 5
Beating (soft): Y 2 Manicures (giving): N 3
Beating (hard): N 2 Massage (giving): Y 5
Blindfolds: Y 5 Massage (receiving): Y 4
Being serviced (sexual): Y 4 Medical scenes: N 5
Being bitten: Y 3 Modeling for erotic photos: Y 4
Breast/chest bondage: Y 5 Modeling for erotic videos: Y 4
Breath control: N 1 Mouth bits: N 4
Branding: Y N Mummification: Y 5
Boot worship: N 1 Nipple clamps: Y 5
Bondage (light): Y 5 Nipple cloths pins: Y 5
Bondage (heavy): Y 5 Nipple weights: N 4
Bondage (multi-day): N 5 Oral/anal play (rimming): Y 5
Bondage (public, under clothing): Y 5 Over-the-knee spanking: Y 5
Bondage and Sex: Y 5 Orgasm denial: Y 4
Breast whipping: Y 4 Orgasm control: Y 5
Brown showers (scat): N N Outdoor scenes: Y 4
Cages (locked inside of): N 4 Outdoor sex: Y 4
Caning: Y 4 Phone sex (serving Dom): Y 4
Catheterization: N N Phone sex (serving Dom's friends): N 3
Cells/Closets (locked inside of): Y 1 Piercing (temporary, play-pierce): N 5
Chastity belts: Y 3 Piercing (permanent): y N
Chauffeuring: Y 3 Prison scenes: N 1
Choking: N N Pony slave: N 2
Clothespins breast/nipples: Y 4 Public exposure: Y 2
Clothespins labia lips/clit: Y 4 Public tasks: Y 3
Clothespins body: Y 3 Pussy/cock whipping: Y 4
Cock worship: Y 4 Pussy worship: N 3
Collars (worn in private): Y 5 Riding crops: Y 4
Collars (worn in public): Y 5 Riding the "horse" (crotch tort.): N 4
Competitions (with other Subs): Y 3 Rituals: N 3
Corsets (wearing): Y 2 Religious scenes: N N
Cuffs: Y 5 Restrictive rules on behavior: Y 4
Cuffs: (metal) Y 5 Rubber/latex clothing: N 4
Cutting N N Rope body harness: Y 5
Dilation: N N Saran wrapping: Y 5
Double penetration: Y 5 Scratching – getting: Y 3
Electricity: Y 1 Scratching-giving Y 3
Enemas: Y 1 Sensory deprivation: N 5
Enforced chastity: N 1 Serving: Y 5
Examinations (physical): Y 4 Serving as art: N 5
Exercise (forced/required): Y 1 Serving as ashtray: N N
Exhibitionism (friends): Y 2 Serving as furniture: y 3
Exhibitionism (strangers): N 1 Serving as a maid: Y 4
Eye contact restrictions Y 1 Serving as toilet: N N
Face slapping: N N Serving as waitress/waiter: Y 5
Fantasy abandonment: N 1 Serving orally (sexual): Y 5
Fantasy rape: Y 4 Serving other Doms (supervised): N 4
Fantasy forced deep throat: Y 3 Serving other Doms (unsupervised): N 3
Fantasy forced cunt licking: N 3 Sexual deprivation (short term): Y 4
Fantasy forced rape anal: Y 2 Sexual deprivation (long term): N 3
Fantasy gang-rape: N N Shaving (body hair): N 1
Fisting (anal): N N Shaving (head hair): N/A N/A
Fisting (vaginal): Y N Shaving (pubic hair): Y 2
Flogging Y 4 Spanking in private: Y 5
Following hand signals: N 3 Spanking in public: N 4
Following orders: Y 5 Spanking in bdsm party: N 5
Foot worship N 2 Spanking pleasure: Y 5
Forced dressing: Y 5 Spandex clothing: N 4
Forced homosexuality: N 1 Speech restrictions (when, what): Y 4
Forced masturbation: Y 3 Speculums (Anal): N 1
Forced nudity (private): Y 5 Speculums (Vagina): N 4
Forced nudity (around others): Y 4 Spreader bars: y 5
Forced servitude: Y 5 Standing in corner: Y 4
Full head hoods: N 5 Stocks (adjustable): y 5
Gags (cloth): Y 5 Stocks (fixed): N 5
Gags (penis shaped): Y 5 Straight jackets: N 5
Gags (rubber): Y 5 Strap-on-dildos (sucking on): Y 5
Gags (tape): N 5 Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by): Y 5
Gates of Hell: N/A N/A Strap-on-dildos (wearing): Y 5
Genital sex: N/A N/A Strapping (full body beating): N 2
Given away to another Dom (temp): N 2 Suspension (upright); y 5
Given away to another Domme (temp): N 2 Suspension (inverted): y 5
Given away to another Dom (perm): N 2 Suspension (horizontal): y 5
Given away to another Domme (perm): N 2 Supplying new partners for Dom: N 1
Golden showers: N N Swallowing semen: Y 1
Greetings rituals: Y 4 Swallowing urine: N N
Hairbrush spankings: Y 5 Swapping (with one other couple): y 1
Hair pulling: Y 5 Swinging (multiple couples): N 1
Hand jobs (giving): Y 4 Tattooing: y N
Hand jobs (receiving): Y 4 Teasing: Y 5
Harems (serving w/other subs): Y 5 Tickling: Y 5
Harnessing (leather): N 5 Triple penetration: Y 5
Harnessing (rope): N 5 Triple penetration by 3 males: y 4
Having food chosen for you: Y 5 Uniforms: N 4
Having clothing chosen for you: Y 5 Including others: Y 4
Head (giving cunnilingus): Y 4 Vaginal dildo: Y 5
Head (giving fellatio): N N Verbal humiliation: Y 3
Head (receiving cunnilingus female only): Y 4 Vibrator on genitals: Y 4
Head (receiving fellatio male only): N N Voyeurism (watching others): Y 4
High heel worship: N 1 Voyeurism (your Dom w/others): Y 4
Homage with tongue (non-sexual): Y 1 Video (watching others): Y 3
Hot oils (on genitals): Y 4 Video (recordings of you): Y 4
Hot waxing: Y 4 Water torture: N 1
Housework (doing): Y 3 Wearing symbolic jewelry: N 4
Human puppy dog: N 3 Whipping: N 4
Humiliation (private): Y 3
Humiliation (public): Y 3
Hypnotism: N 3
Ice cubes: Y 5
Infantilism: N 1
Initiation rites: N 2

[tora]

Abrasion: Yes 1
Age play: Yes 3
Anal sex: No 0
Anal plugs (small):Yes 5
Anal plugs (large): Yes 5
Anal plug (public, under clothes): Yes 5
Animal roles: Yes 5
Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders): No 5
Asphyxiation: Yes 2
Auctioned for charity: No 2
Bathroom use control: Yes 5
Bestiality: No 3
Beating (soft): Yes 5
Beating (hard): Yes 4
Blindfolds: Yes 5
Being serviced (sexual): Yes 5
Being bitten: Yes 4
Breast/chest bondage: Yes 5
Breath control: Yes 4
Branding: No 3
Boot worship: No 3
Bondage (light): Yes 5
Bondage (heavy): Yes 5
Bondage (multi-day): Yes 5
Bondage (public, under clothing): Yes 5
Bondage and Sex: Yes 5
Breast whipping: Yes 5
Brown showers (scat): No 0
Cages (locked inside of): Yes 3
Caning: No 4
Catheterization: No 2
Cells/Closets (locked inside of): Yes 5
Chastity belts: No 4
Chauffeuring: No 2
Choking: Yes 4
Clothespins breast/nipples: Yes 4
Clothespins labia lips/clit: Yes 3
Clothespins body: Yes 3
Cock worship: Yes 5
Collars (worn in private): Yes 5
Collars (worn in public): Yes 3
Competitions (with other Subs): Yes 2
Corsets (wearing): No 5
Cuffs: Yes 5
Cuffs (metal): Yes 3
Cutting: Yes 3
Dilation: No 2
Double penetration: Yes 5
Electricity: Yes 4
Enemas: Yes 3
Enforced chastity: No 4
Examinations (physical): Yes 3
Exercise (forced/required): Yes 3
Exhibitionism (friends): No (OL 4) (RL 2)
Exhibitionism (strangers): No (OL 4) (RL 1)
Eye contact restrictions: Yes 4
Face slapping: Yes 5
Fantasy abandonment: No 0
Fantasy rape: Yes No
Fantasy forced deep throat: Yes 5
Fantasy forced cunt licking: No 5
Fantasy forced rape anal: No No
Fantasy gang-rape: No No
Fisting (anal): No 3
Fisting (vaginal): Yes 4
Flogging: Yes 5
Following hand signals: Yes 3
Following orders: Yes 5
Foot worship: Yes 2
Forced dressing: Yes 5
Forced homosexuality: No 4
Forced masturbation: Yes 5
Forced nudity (private): Yes 5
Forced nudity (around others): No 0
Forced servitude: Yes 5
Full head hoods: No 5
Gags (cloth): Yes 5
Gags (penis shaped): No 5
Gags (rubber): Yes 5
Gags (tape): Yes 5
Gates of Hell: n/a
Genital sex: Yes 5
Given away to another Dom (temp): No 4
Given away to another Domme (temp): No 4
Given away to another Dom (perm): No 0
Given away to another Domme (perm): No 0
Golden showers: Yes 1
Greetings rituals: Yes 4
Hairbrush spankings: Yes 5
Hair pulling: Yes 4
Hand jobs (giving): Yes 5
Hand jobs (receiving): N/a
Harems (serving w/other subs): (RL no 3) (OL yes 4)
Harnessing (leather): No 5
Harnessing (rope): Yes 5
Having food chosen for you: Yes 3
Having clothing chosen for you: Yes 5
Head (giving cunnilingus): Yes 5
Head (giving fellatio): Yes 5
Head (receiving cunnilingus female only): Yes 4
Head (receiving fellatio male only): n/a
High heel worship: No 3
Homage with tongue (non-sexual): Yes 3
Hot oils (on genitals): Yes 3
Hot waxing: Yes 2
Housework (doing): Yes 1
Human puppy dog: No 2
Humiliation (private): Yes 5
Humiliation (public): Yes 3
Hypnotism: No
Ice cubes: Yes 4
Infantilism: No 4
Initiation rites: No 3
Injections: No 0
Intricate (Japanese) rope bondage: Yes 5
Interrogations: No 3
Kidnapping: No 0
Kneeling: Yes 5
Leather clothing: Yes 5
restraints chains: No 5
restraints leather: Yes 5
restraints rope: Yes 5
Lectures for misbehavior: Yes 2
Licking (non-sexual): Yes 2
Manacles & Irons: No 4
Manicures (giving): No 4
Massage (giving): Yes 5
Massage (receiving): Yes 3
Medical scenes: No 4

Modeling for erotic photos: Yes No
Modeling for erotic videos: Yes No
Mouth bits: No 4
Mummification: No 4
Nipple clamps: Yes 4
Nipple cloths pins: Yes 3
Nipple weights: Yes 3
Oral/anal play (rimming): Yes 2
Over-the-knee spanking: Yes 5
Orgasm denial: Yes 3
Orgasm control: Yes 5
Outdoor scenes: Yes 4
Outdoor sex: Yes 2
Phone sex (serving Dom): Yes 3
Phone sex (serving Dom's friends): No 1
Piercing (temporary, play-pierce): No 3
Piercing (permanent): No 2
Prison scenes: No 3
Pony slave: No 4
Public exposure: Yes 1
Public tasks: Yes 2
Pussy/cock whipping: Yes 4
Pussy worship: No 4
Riding crops: No 4
Riding the "horse" (crotch tort.): Yes 3
Rituals: Yes 4
Religious scenes: No 0
Restrictive rules on behavior: Yes 4
Rubber/latex clothing: No 5
Rope body harness: Yes 5
Saran wrapping: Yes 4
Scratching – getting: Yes 3
Scratching – giving: Yes 5
Sensory deprivation: Yes 5
Serving: Yes 4
Serving as art: No 2
Serving as ashtray: No 1
Serving as furniture: Yes 3
Serving as a maid: Yes 2
Serving as toilet: No 0
Serving as waitress/waiter: Yes 2
Serving orally (sexual): Yes 5
Serving other Doms (supervised): No 3
Serving other Doms (unsupervised): No 1
Sexual deprivation (short term): Yes 4
Sexual deprivation (long term): Yes 3
Shaving (body hair): Yes 5
Shaving (head hair): No 2
Shaving (pubic hair): No 2
Sleep deprivation: Yes 2
Sleep-sacks: No 3
Slutty clothing (private): Yes 5
Slutty clothing (public): Yes 3
Spanking in private: Yes 5
Spanking in public: Yes 2
Spanking in bdsm parties: No 4
Spanking pleasure:Yes 4
Spandex clothing: Yes 3
Speech restrictions (when, what): Yes 4
Speculums (Anal): No 3
Speculums (vaginal): No 4
Spreader bars: Yes 5
Standing in corner: Yes 3
Stocks (adjustable): No 4
Stocks (fixed): No 4
Straight jackets: No 4
Strap-on-dildos (sucking on): No 5
Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by): No 5
Strap-on-dildos (wearing): No 3
Strapping (full body beating): Yes 3
Suspension (upright); No 4
Suspension (inverted): No 3
Suspension (horizontal): No 4
Supplying new partners for Dom: No 1
Swallowing semen: Yes 5
Swallowing urine: Yes 0
Swapping (with one other couple): No 2
Swinging (multiple couples): No 2
Tattooing: No 2
Teasing: Yes 3
Tickling: Yes 2
Triple penetration: Yes 5
Triple penetration by 3 males: No 3
Uniforms: No 4
Including others: No 2
Vaginal dildo: Yes 5
Verbal humiliation: Yes 5
Vibrator on genitals: Yes 5
Voyeurism (watching others): Yes 2
Voyeurism (your Dom w/others): (No RL 0) (Yes OL 3)
Video (watching others): Yes 3
Video (recordings of you): Yes 0
Water torture: Yes 4
Wearing symbolic jewelry: Yes 5
Whipping: Yes 4
Wooden paddles: Yes 3
Wrestling: No 3