How have your tastes changed?

[Silke]

I'm not sure whether my tastes have changed or whether I'm just finding out new things that I like as I go along. To me it's a different thing whether I hated being smacked before and then grow to like it...or that I didn't even THINK about it before and now find myself loving it. And the latter has been the case for me in most BDSM related stuff.

On definite change of taste *chuckles* and I mean taste literally...has been for my own juices. I used to hate the thought of it...then hated the taste of it....and now I really like it. *grins*

[submissivewife]

I'm not sure whether my tastes have changed or whether I'm just finding out new things that I like as I go along. To me it's a different thing whether I hated being smacked before and then grow to like it...or that I didn't even THINK about it before and now find myself loving it. And the latter has been the case for me in most BDSM related stuff.

On definite change of taste *chuckles* and I mean taste literally...has been for my own juices. I used to hate the thought of it...then hated the taste of it....and now I really like it. *grins*

DITTO

[Aesop]

My tastes have changed over the years. When I first began it was all about the bondage then as time passed my interests went to pain and humiliation. Now my primary interest seems to be just the control. The activities don't seem to matter as much as that the activity is being done because I say so. Make sense?

[Tojo]

Makes perfect sense to me Aesop.


Tojo

[orchid]

I'm not sure whether my tastes have changed or whether I'm just finding out new things that I like as I go along.

i agree exactly!
i am constantly amazed at how my thoughts have changed as we have grown in this lifestyle and in our relationship. of course, there are still many things that i have hard limits about and am still not interested in trying but there are also some things that i didn't think i would like, that when i was willing to try them, i discovered were very enjoyable - spanking for instance.

i think that it is normal for one's tastes to change as we grow as individuals and with our partners. i'm looking forward to what other changes will come in time!

[Alex Bragi]

I'm not sure whether my tastes have changed or whether I'm just finding out new things that I like as I go along.
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Yes, a good point. When I first discovered BDSM, a kind and very knowledgeable dom told me: "In this lifestyle, you never stop learning about yourself." At the time, I didn't really understand what he meant, but I do now.

[Neil]

On definite change of taste *chuckles* and I mean taste literally...has been for my own juices. I used to hate the thought of it...then hated the taste of it....and now I really like it. *grins*

Heh, me too. The thought of it used to disgust me, then sometime last year I got involved with an American Mistress online, she would sometimes make me masturbate for her and then drink my own cum, I haven't used tissues since!

I was made to do other things I wouldn't have previously dreamed of aswell, like having something inserted in my arse, or in this case - inserting it myself. That took more effort on her part as it was something I thought I was fundamentally opposed to, and I never got off on doing it, though I did get off on doing it for her, or anything else for that matter eventually. So no my tastes didn't change in that case but my boundaries were definitely stretched, I now know that's something I'm capable of doing without damaging myself as a person, and although it's not something I would do freely, I could and would for the right person.

On the other side of things; I used to like to control sex, to have someone do what I told them to, I've been dominating women in bed since long before I discovered BDSM. Now that's not enough, it's not a challenge to simply have someone do what you say. It has to be a certain type of person, strong-willed, selective, knows what they want. Now the kick of it all is getting that type of person to want to do everything I say, for all the 'right' reasons.