Quote Originally Posted by submissivewife
I can't speak for switches. BUT, for me, I have always wanted to be submissive. I desire to be controlled. For a dominant, they like control and desire to be in control (from my understanding). For switches, as I have become to understand, they are submissive to some and feel dominant to another OR they wish to play the part of a submissive or dominant in a scene and then take the role of the opposite in another scene. (I hope you understand what I am saying.)
submissivewife,
I do understand what you're saying. The problem, as I see it, is one of these feelings eventually must take precedence. Maybe I'm totally off base but I can't fantasize both ways. Could certainly be due to lack of experience on my end.