This reminds me of a conversation with a young lady who identifies as a lesbian & was worried that she was attracted to a guy.

I said that it doesn't matter what you are so much, as how you feel.

I can't see it's so hard to be submissive one day, & Dom the next. It depends on who you're with in my opinion. I see tall stately women dressed appropriately in pics sometimes & think 'Hmm'. Cannot imagine kneeling down for one, mind you- but their obvious power is a turn on.

I have a problem saying 'I'm a Dom'- I'd much rather say 'I love being in control'

Tojo