Relationship Question

[sisterhoney61 {RW}]

After being trapped in a vanilla marriage for ten years I decided that my next relationship was going to be a kinky one. I purposefully set out to look for one and it was not an easy thing to do. I live in the Bible Belt and trying to find kinky people here is like trying to find the proverbial needle in a haystack. I would not have been able to find my Master if not for the Internet. There are websites that can help you locate groups, munches, clubs and dungeons in your area or in cities close to you. You can also visit forums like this one and place personal ads. You can join in chat rooms with like-minded people.

It will take some time to find a person and build up a relationship. I was online for several months before I met my Master and then chatted with Him for a year before W/we met IRL. It is possible to have a wonderful and kinky relationship with someone. It's not easy to accomplish, but it can be done.

[Krougar]

Thank you for the input, it has all been helpful. I might be over thinking this a little as well, I don't think most girls who I am interested in would have much objection to light/medium bondage.

I guess my real problem is getting the strength to actually bring up the subject.

[Tojo]

If I had my time over again, I'd ask the (uninitiated) girl to lie down & hold onto the bed rails or whatever so she's stretched out- kind of 'just lie still while I tease you & get you all hot...'

A simple progression to 'stop wriggling or I'll have to tie your wrists.'

I just showed my potential wife a couple of bondage magazines & said it was an interest of mine, but she didn't have to participate. Her own interest sparked the beginning of a few rope games & waving of crops & collars around over the years.

If you become a half-way decent Dom, you'll be beating the girls off with a stick.