Hey Silke!

OK, I've tried just about every way there was-until the advent of the internet. I've been to clubs, parties, chatted to girls in social events,stolen girls from my mates (ouch), advertised (any UK based perves remember "OTK-FM"? I was put in there by the guys that ran it!) and joined vanilla agencies.

In case any one is wondering-I'm not a good-looking bloke so have my share of being alone.

I've always known my kinky tendencies and have tried to be up-front about them. Oddly enough I was chatting with my wife today over breakfast about this very subject. We were recalling our first dates. I told her on date two what I liked and she readily tried things out. We quickly discovered a side of her that had been hidden and were both surprised at the result!

I believe that being open is the key to meeting a suitable partner-that and a good deal of patience! Obviously if you can venture to a club, then you're bound to meet like-minded souls. This is easy for the likes of me-male, quite tall and solid and confident but a damn sight less easy for you girls. You should never put yourselves at risk and should always let someone know where you are going.

With the internet revolution the chatrooms and forums here seem to be a good step into a relationship. I'm not saying any more on this subject as I have no real experience-I love chatting and posting and have made some quite brilliant friends but have not established a 1-to-1 with anyone.

I suppose there is no easy way. There are signs of course and listening is thae best way to pick these up in here, and in r/l it is my old friend body language that reigns supreme. I watched a British Comedy film yersterday that illustrates this-"Kinky Boots" There is one seen where a girl starts to dance with a male cross-dresser in kinky boots carrying a riding crop. Her body language is incredible-"I want to stick my arse in the air and be taken here and now-after a thorough whipping!" (By the hero-not the cross-dresser!)

I hope this helps?

Uncle Ed.