Dom for a Day

[good_girl]

It's interesting to me that I come across this post now, I was having a conversation with a Dom I know just the other day and through the course of this conversation I made a comment that we never know what will be in 5 years...he responded with "in 5 years you will be Domme"
I almost fell out of my chair laughing, can't even imagine myself that way and really have no desire to either...but he stood firm and reminded me of how much I have already changed since we first met.
It makes me curious now, is this a common thing, for subs to change or to even want to change?
I personally feel more comfortable in myself now than I ever have in my life, I don't want that to change.

[butterflySlave4u]

smiles....can you say "Switch"?

it happens....

[tessa]

smiles....can you say "Switch"?

You know, I thought about this term when I first read the question. It seemed to fit. However, I read some responses here and thought about my own feelings on the matter, and I'm wondering if it does. And because I wonder, I have a lot of questions.

I have no desire whatsoever to domme anyone, male or female, and yet I have sadistic desires. It seems that others here have responded in the same way. So I'm led to wonder- does having sadistic desires mean that one has a desire to dom another? It's difficult for me to reconcile a 'yes' answer to that question based on what I know to be true for me. And how does this fit in with the whole concept of switching? Does it at all? Or is it another idea entirely? And if it is another idea, what idea is it??

Anyone else have any thoughts that might help with my clear as mud ideas on this topic? Hopefully so?

[butterflySlave4u]

it sounds to me, tessa, like you have a pure masochistic streak running through you

and Domme or no...those sadistic desires you have, are you aiming them at yourself, or someone else? either physically, or in your own mind? do these thoughts turn you on?


there are Doms who wander through here who could help you sort those thoughts out more readily than i could, but it seems that this might be a place to start....

[good_girl]

smiles....can you say "Switch"?

it happens....

I can understand how it may appear this way, but as tessa said I to have no desire to Dom anyone else, in fact the thought of it is a major turn off for me. It struck me as very strange that he would even suggest that this would be a possibility and since then I find myself questioning weather or not I will remain content as I am, it was only about 2 years ago when I realized and came to terms with who I am and the freedom I feel is amazing, I don't ever want that feeling to fade.