MsUther,as a female you have the choice to wear whatever you like,wether male style clothing,which most women do wear when they feel like it,ot the sexiest of feminine things.You never have to think of them as forbidden to you.men are different,they have to stay in a very conservative mode so the women stand out instead of them.that is reality.If you were on our side of the fence ,you would see it from a totally different angle.
My wife confessed to me that she missed the sharing complicity she had with her other two sisters,and by convincing me to share some of her passion,it was like she was also getting that soft female side she had with her sisters.Not very logical,I agree but then,feelings are not always logical