Body Size & Shape

[leo9]

I'm attracted to people's minds. Everyone says it but I can prove it: my partners have ranged from tiny to tall and from skinny to huge, and I thought they were all beautiful.

I first contacted my late slave-wife by post, back in the ancient days when we exchanged bits of dead tree and it took a week to get a reply, and she told me she was fat but I just said "so much more to enjoy". And when she finally sent me a photo she must have chosen the most unflattering one she could find as a test, because it made her look like a weather balloon with a tennis ball on top. (At that time she used to wear her hair militant-feminist short, which suited her like high heels on a duck; I changed that right away.) And I looked at it and thought "That's different, but I can learn to love it." And I did.

I don't know about the US, but in England there seem to be more XXXL women in the BDSM community than I meet anywhere else, and without exception they are proud and confident as well as sexy. (A remarkable number of them are running our clubs and munches and the like.) Maybe it's because most BDSM people don't measure sexual attractiveness by how closely you fit the media body models, but by more personal tests like how well you project dominance or submission, or whether you can take or give pain creatively and effectively. Size is a practical detail, not a deal-breaker.

Say it loud, you're big and proud!