Would i get in a car with someone who had been drinking or doing drugs? No...

So... why would i let someone try a paddle, flogger, knife, open flame, wax play, breath play or anything else around/on me after they have been drinking...

Unless there is a "Designated Dom/me" to call upon at that point the answer would be no thank you... i cherish me to much to risk something with that set of circumstances.

And that being said... if the Dominate can't control their alcohol intake i wouldn't want them to be in control of me. Control has to come from within before it can be shared... at least imo.