Quote Originally Posted by ShyLittleSlave View Post
Hmmm thank you all for your input. I will definantly try that journal idea from Kuskovian. That is an excellent idea. I will tell him as soon as possible. He would love to know how he can make the sessions more pleasurable for me. But by telling him what I want am I taking a bit of his dominant nature?

of course not, part of being in if any relationship, even sub-dom is letting the other know how you feel and if something is wrong. if he was TO rough and hurting you not in a fun way, you'd need to tell him, right? so why should it be any different?