From the Dom point of view. Two fold irresponsible. Im guessing this is an online relationship with realtime consequences. So first you must remember self preservation when conducting activities with elevated risk such as public indecency. If its not an online relationship, why was your Dom not there to remove you from the bad situation, or was that part of the scene?

Safe words have their place, and should be used when you feel you have gone beyond what your willing to accept. You should talk this over with your Dom, and ask him what was his intention. If it was for you go get your face smashed in, I strongly suggest finding someone else. If it wasn't then your next question should be, why did he let them hurt you? If he was there present at the time that is.

Back to if your in an online relationship, always discuss potential risks of the activity your asked to do, and what to do if things start to take a turn for the worse. If he says "your there, you figure it out". End the conversation and move on. If he gives some reply like "let me think about that". End the conversation, and move on.

When a Dom begins an activity with a submissive, he should have a very good understanding of both the incredible turn on it is, as well as the potential risks of that activity. Even if its something as simple as spanking.

Good luck with your Dom, and good luck with your activities.

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