Well, kiddo, I was going to tell you how good some of the advice was, then I saw the bottom of the first page and the second page.

Seems that you have been given two categories of advice:

1. It's not too much to ask, if that's what you need.

2. It is too much to ask, this is a sex site, get with the program.

I'll fall into the first category.

IF, however, IF it were true that all subs need to feel like mere sex objects (which some do) then I'd fall into the second category. That is the ONLY basis for agreeing with the second category, and again, all subs DO NOT have a repressed (or known) desire to be merely a breathing masturbation object.

Continue looking. Yes, you will have to wade through a lot of guys who are only here for the immediate sex (just like, to a lesser degree, I would have to wade through a lot of girls that are only here for immediate sex), but if you are worth it to you (and I think you are), then you are worth it, period.

Frankly, I'd go nuts with a sub that only was there to be my cum receptacle. Thank goodness, kurious is smart, engaging, and capable of initiating fun stuff. Otherwise, I'd be done with her after the first or second cum. That's not a relationship, that's high school junk.

Oh, and hopperboo, it appears this goes for you, too. Best of luck.