Sounds to me like you got ahold of a HNG (horny new guy). If I were you I would start off with doing some of the activities on the academy. Saftey is monitored there, and you can learn quite a lot as well. Not to mention there are some here on the boards who have met a real time Dom or sub via the academy.

Go over a checklist with this guy before your next actvity if you intend on keeping in contact. That he was smart enough to say, look I fudged the pooch on this one, I understand if you dont want contact, actually speaks some points in his favor I think.

Good luck & Be Safe

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