Clamps on the clit?

[yama]

Soft limits should be tested. If it is something you have never done, but are curious about, go ahead and try it.

Thank you very much, Arria. Now I can see that I must try it. If only to prove to myself that I am not a coward. Your whole post is very clever and educative, but the quoted sentence is decisive.

I hope I will be able to show Lila new things she can do with me. :

It is very interesting that there are subs who aren't masochists. Do they enjoy being controlled?

Thanks again.

[Ozme52]

It is very interesting that there are subs who aren't masochists. Do they enjoy being controlled?

Some do. Some revel in giving something to their dominant that is difficult for them.

They match up well with doms who aren't necessarily full blown sadists, who need to see that unconditional submission.

There is no limit to the variety of tops and bottoms and dominants and subs and masters and slaves nor the various combinations thereof.