ladies, you all have a GREAT position on this matter. What I expect is Respect. Respect gets you a lot further. Plus it startes the relationship that may lead to bigger and better things. I demand it for both the Dom ( myself) and sub. If you have no respect for the other, where are you going in this type of relationship? If all you are looking for is abuse, then good luck. I personally was raised to treat a lady with Respect, and I know I do.

As far as names we use while talking to our sub, big deal, get over it, accept it, and know how Blessed you are to be with your SPECIAL PERSON.