Submission to me is and act of will power, my will. When I surrender to my master I invoke my will to do the will of another, his. What he does with that power is in his discretion. I have been and will always be very choosy of who I hand my power too. There is a light and dark side to everything, in the dark a Dom could beat me, starve me, etc. and turn me into something that would obey his command, but that is not my submission.