I'm curious that about half of the replies here agree that women aren't in touch with their bodies, and the other half emphasize the degree to which their brains are erogenous. Seems like two intentions; one in which women "fail" and the other in which we "fail" to listen to women. My same colleague said that she has been thinking that she's supposed to respond to sexual stimulus that doesn't really do anything for her. I'm surprised what strikes me suddenly; cold, hard concrete against the soles of my feet