I am by no means a pain slut, yet can be spanked to the point of orgasm. For me it is the situation.

The disciplne aspect, can and will teach your body to react differently I guess it just depends on how willing your mind is to accept the lesson being taught.

There is pleasureable pain, and just simply pain everyone's threshold is different inside or outside SM

I have found that inside the BDSM aspect, things I fantasized about before trying and thought I would like I didnt. Things that I thought were somewhat of a limit that I would not like at all I find myself now begging for.

How far you go, is why there are safe words. You wont know the answer to that until you explore for your self.