how to prepare for a sodomizing?

[brwneydgirl]

I haven't read anything yet about "cleaning out" beforehand...understanding that it isn't required...but it's gotta mean less chance of an accident (if you catch my drift)...this is one of my biggest worries about anal--even beyond the pain issue. I guess the one drawback of this idea is loss of spontaneity--just curious where everybody stands on this???

Anybody who saw Zack and Miri Make A Porno will know exactly what I mean.

[Pflutter]

Looks like there are some upsides to a serious crash and loss of valuable data - posts like this get an automatic bump. Can anyone follow up on brwneydgirl's request for info re: "accidents" and internal cleansing (or not) before anal?
Thx

[CuriousNYsub]

Thanks Pflutter. This is an issue I have been grappling with quite a bit lately. I'm in a friends with benefits, BDSM type of situation (although we dont really talk about BDSM, Dom/sub roles, we just kind of do it...which is another interesting question. Has anyone else experienced this?).

Our sessions are so spontaneous that it's hard to know when/if somethings going to happen. Anal play has become a part of our fun. I enjoy it, but sometimes I wish I could prepare better. Any pointers out there?