yesterday when i was reading this exact thread a close friend from my life came by unannounced, i instantly clicked this off because i didn't want to hear it. the truth is also, i would love to live in a world where i could not have to avoid having stripes when its near doctors visits, where i wouldn't have to run to the bedroom to make sure everything is put away right when people come over who may want to see the house. i may not want to walk around calling Him "Master" all the time, but it would be nice if that was what W/we wanted it wouldn't raise eyebrows. i do have kids in school and i need to fit in and i need not to bail Him out because in my state much of what W/we do isn't even legal.